Commitment - Simple as That - Will make a long lasting marriage

During a potluck dinner at my church a few years back, the pastor announced that a couple in attendance had recently celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary. Later in the evening, word got around that this elderly couple needed a ride back to their home, which was about 30 minutes away. My wife and I immediately volunteered.

As newlyweds, we were eager to have a conversation with these matrimonial gladiators.As we approached their home, I asked, "So what do you two feel is the secret to a successful marriage?"

"Commitment," they said, both speaking at the same time. "So many people feel like their marriage is failing because they're not happy all the time," the wife continued. "You're never going to be happy all the time. But you can stay committed."

I have to admit, I was a little disappointed by her answer. I was hoping for something like, "Start playing golf together" or "Eat dinner as a family every night." I guess I was hoping for something more concrete—more practical. Yet, as my wife and I celebrate our 3rd anniversary, I've been struck over and over again by the wisdom of her words.

(PreachingToday eNewletter - 6/15/04)